Dating a roommate

Kelly Halligan has moved with her 17-year-old niece from New York to California to start her new business venture.

When her niece tries out for the soccer team, the two meet the athletic ... Beck, who has changed his name, saves a young teenage girl drowning in Mexico, whom he falls in love with.

Also staying on the estate is muscular show-off Jason-Shane Scott (as Alan).

It was late morning, and I was putting up a fresh pot of coffee when I heard the first meow. “But I want a kitty so bad,” she said a couple weeks later. Later that afternoon, in the kitchen between our bedrooms, we talked, leaning on opposite counters.

But I needed a roommate, and for the most part, she matched my criteria: stable enough to pay rent, normal enough not to stab me with a kitchen knife or steal my meager possessions.

The car would have been damaged but would have been otherwise intact, and would have contained numerous fingerprints from Alan as would the cell phone he used.

She looked like a typical post-college young woman: hair dyed reddish-blond, large earmuff headphones over her ears. Several days later, she brought documents attesting to her claims, and it all seemed to check out.

She walked with a kind of childish languor, as if it hadn’t fully settled in that she was an adult. She moved in a couple weeks later, with the help of her dad, whom I found affable in a way that put me further at ease.

And if you do find a bi girl who isn't into exclusive relationships, it's still a really shit chat-up line and will immediately lessen your chances of most women continuing the conversation, let alone open any doors to hot group-sex action. If only you could see our faces when we open the fifth threesome message of the day… Equally, they're no more likely to jump at your suggestion of having an open relationship or to giggle and comply when you tell them to snog their mate in a club for a laugh. Being bi usually means having the capacity to both love and feel sexual desire for more than one gender. Yup, we can live quite happily without male penetration. We can share those painful youthful memories of cringey bra-hook moments (seriously, it still takes practice, even if you know how to do it on yourself). You wouldn't keep asking a straight girl if she was "sure" she was straight, so don't keep asking us to reassess our sexuality. People don't question a frantically masturbating virgin teenage boy when he says he likes those girls on the internet, so why question adult "virgin" bisexuals? "Oh, so you might as well say you're straight, then? Tending towards one gender in general doesn't in any way dilute our attraction to anyone else we like or have liked. We're often open-minded about gender in other ways. Unsurprisingly, given how far society still has to go, a lot of us are quite into our activism and the fight for bi visibility.

Bi women are no more likely to cheat on you than anyone else. And one of the most offensive things you can do is to suggest that we're free to get it on with other women because "it doesn't count as cheating" and other women aren't a "threat". How sexist is it to suggest that only sex with a man counts as "real" sex?! It may well have taken us some guts to tell you that, too, because society still seems to be having trouble getting its head round bisexuality. Having a preference for one gender still means we're bi.

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