Dating men too nice
Women don't want to be with someone who is all calm seas and clear skies; we crave constant challenges in everything we do.
When it comes to love, we choose the guy who satisfies that desire.
That way, perhaps they’ll drop the ridiculous motto “Nice guys finish last” and pick up “Nice guys, when they choose to remain nice, more times than not, finish best.”Nice guys are kind (by very definition of the word). And as you mature, you also realize that they are the ones who make dates and keep them. They tend to know just where they are taking you and it’s usually a place that is sweet and memorable.
I remember my mother once saying to me, “Shellie, I just want you to marry a kind man. Nice guys are the ones who are gonna call when they say they will and are usually quite clear about their intentions.
The narcissistic male does not make a good partner, but even experienced females do not realize this. In a tragic twist of fate, the assh*les are now breeding assh*les. The tests are tried and true; women habitually chase these d-bags, despite how many times they have their hearts broken. We want those arrogant dicks who make us somehow feel alive.
We choose assh*les because of the danger factor involved in dating guys who are strong and conceited.
You know, my running joke with some of my friends is that…In your 20s, you want a man who is fine. However, the more I care about me, the more I want a man who truly does as well.The nice guy may seem great on paper, but he turns out bland in real life. As often as we ladies say those chaotic personality traits aren't what we're looking for in a boyfriend, they are. When a woman is faced with a "bad boy," she automatically finds the challenge to tame him alluring.Women like to "fix men." A nice guy doesn't need any taming. His vanity is all at once angering and intoxicating.We know they're wrong for us, they'll never treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated, and instead of running for the hills, we jump on for the ride. No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't know how to assert himself.Whether we want to admit it or not, we want excitement in our relationships. This can be a difficult thing to admit as a strong, independent female, but it is, nonetheless, true.